Ep 05 - Ted Bradshaw
"Their Punch in the Face Hasn't Happened Yet": Ted Bradshaw on the Doubt that Never Fully Leaves
Key takeaways
Ted Bradshaw has run more than 1,300 sessions and trains new Implementers, so he sees the field at both ends.
He's found that doubt doesn't fade with experience. It comes back at the thousandth session wearing different clothes.
For Implementers who seem to have it easy, he says the punch in the face simply hasn't happened yet.
He and Chris Beer keep hearing the same two phrases at a plateau: that's not fair, and must be nice. He sees comparison as the cleanest way to avoid the work.
He names four things every Implementer arrives with: a story, a passion for the work, a network, and the ability to sell. The network is the one people work around instead of closing.
He's clear that support is pull, not push. You identify the gap, you seek the help, you own the follow-through.
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The Idea
The wall doesn't care how many sessions you've done.
Some Implementers ramp faster than others. Better network, stronger sales instinct, a market that already knows what EOS® is. Ted's take on the ones who seem to have it easy: "that just means their punch in the face hasn't happened yet. And it will."
The punch always lands. What surprised him is that it keeps landing, at every level. A thousand-session Implementer having doubts about the next client, the next quarter, the next year of their practice is "not really materially different from someone who's trying to get to their hundredth session." Same doubt. Different conditions around it.
The reflex most people reach for is comparison. Ted and Chris kept landing on the same two phrases Implementers use when a plateau hits: that's not fair, and must be nice. It feels true in the moment. It's also the cleanest way to avoid the work.
Because the conditions surrounding building an EOS® practice are genuinely different for everyone. Ted started when almost nobody in his area knew what EOS® was, so he had to prove the market before he could sell into it. Someone starting today skips that hill and inherits a different one. The economy, the price of boot camp, the local awareness, the timing all shift. None of it is the lever.
The lever is ownership. In Ted's words, "there is a sense of ownership to our success." The support around an Implementer is enormous: scheduled calls, Slack channels that fill with Zoom links the moment you send up a flare, guides for every step. But the resources don't move on their own. At the end of the day, you have to carry your own weight.
Implementers come in with four things: a story, a passion for the work, a network, and the ability to sell. Everyone is strong in some and weak in others, and that mix never resolves into all strengths. The one Ted keeps returning to is the network, because it's the gap people most often work around instead of closing.
The Steal
Are you waiting for help, or actually asking for it?
Ted's core message comes down to this: ownership drives your success, but you are never alone in the process of building your practice. EOS® gives you structure and community support at every stage, from your first hundred sessions through veteran status past a thousand. And the doubt is universal. Every Implementer hits it, regardless of experience level.
So when your growth stalls, the useful question isn't "why is this unfair?" It's "what's different now compared to the other times I've succeeded in life?" Treat that as a gap to name, not a mystery to wait out.
From there, help exists and people will show up for you. But only after you do three things yourself: identify the gap, actively seek the help, and own the follow-through. Because the support is real, but it's pull, not push. It doesn't arrive automatically. As Ted puts it, you have to carry your own weight.
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